My
name is Sharyn Mccoll. I have been practicing Reiki since 2004
and have been a Reiki Master since 2005. My very first Reiki
lesson I had I knew that this was my path that I needed to take.
I knew that I was given this gift because I have so many uses
that I want to share. Reiki to me is not only a form of healing
but a form of living. Reiki is in my every day to day routine.
It may be as simple as self healing me to always being on hand
if a child falls over in the school play ground. I have even
given this gift to my six year old son. I feel that if I cannot
always be there to help some one my son can be. I have been
healing people since my first attunement and it has always been
adults to the simple sore neck to emotional healing. But I came
to realise that I knew in my heart that I wasn’t fulfilled,
yes I love what I do but I knew that i was missing something.
This something is children. There is something magical about
the innocence of a child and the innocence of the gift of Reiki.
I have always been interested in helping pregnant women and
children. It recently occurred to me that there was so much
more that I could do and this is where it brings me to writing
this information sheet. It was one day that a very good friend
of mine was having some trouble with her daughter, nothing that
couldn’t be handled, a stage that she was going through.
My girlfriend is a very strong and independent women and I found
it hard watching her struggle with this situation she found
her self in. Of course me being me, straight away suggested
that she try some Reiki on her to see if that might help. I
offered her some advice on different strategies that she could
do to help her daughter over come this stage of her life. But
sadly enough it wasn’t until I came to do some research
for her there was very little information on Reiki and children.
Yes there was information saying how wonderful it can be and
how great children respond to the healing, but there were no
exercises that you could follow. So here this brings me to writing
this little piece on different ways to relax a child. There
are all different problems when it comes to children from normal
everyday sickness right up to hyperactivity. Along in this information
i will break up different problems that may occur with your
child, and try to help you help your very precious gift, your
own children. I hope that this brings you all a little more
confidence on using Reiki and children.
Reiki
for Pregnancy [
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Be
it your first or fifth pregnancy you always want the best
for your unborn child. What better start in life then to introduce
Reiki into your everyday routine. Little simple steps to ensure
that mother and baby are as relaxed and safe at all times.
This exercise can take only five minutes right up to how ever
long you want to relax for. I always say that if you are as
relaxed as you can be when pregnant you will have a placid
and relaxed baby. There are many little things you can do
that involve self healing, and the healing of others.
Start
by lying in a position that is comfortable have a nice soft
relaxing cd playing and if you can have a couple of candles
lit. Start by doing a little mediation just to make sure that
you are relaxed. Now start by placing your hands over your
eyes and do some palming exercises for about five minutes,
now gently move you’re hands down to your tummy. Gently
place your hands over baby and breath nice and slow. Release
that universal life force energy, as you get more and more
relaxed you will feel more of that energy healing you and
your baby. Gently move your hands in different areas of your
bump and repeat the procedure. This energy will travel through
and your unborn child will be feeling the benefits as much
as you will. Try and do this at least twice a day, this will
help too if you have any kind of back pain this energy will
travel through and go into the area that is sore. I know just
by doing this a little every now and then your baby will be
thanking you.
Reiki
for Infants [
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There
is something to be said about new born babies you always want
to cuddle them. Just by holding them in our arms we are sending
them energy that will relax them and help them. If you have
a baby that cries all day just hold them close place your
hands over their foreheads and gently rock them, if they are
over your shoulder then place your hands on the obstacle bone,
that’s the lump in the back of the head just before
the nape. Gently hold their head in your hands and let the
energy do its job. If you have a baby that is suffering from
wind then place them over your knees while baby is on their
tummy. Have their face resting in the palm of your hand and
gently place your other had on their backs. You can even lay
them on their backs and just place your hands over their tummy
and gently rock them. While doing this always make sure that
you have quiet music playing so the baby gets to feel the
atmosphere that you have provided. Just because they are little
people doesn’t mean they don’t deserve the best
out come of a healing. With that being said the baby will
always have a Reiki healing every time you pick them up to
cuddle. You can use this sort of healing on any part of the
body. If the child was born with something wrong with its
feet or ankles or any other part of the body just by holding
their little limbs in your Reiki energy filled hands will
give them that instant healing that they deserve. We all have
to remember that just because they are babies they will not
respond to this form of healing. Which is completely the other
way around they will lap this up more than some adults do.
So give it a try with a baby that can’t be settled or
is just unhappy i am sure you will notice a difference.
Reiki
for Toddlers [
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Now
we all now how hard it is to keep a toddler quiet and still,
yes if we are parents we will all know that it is near impossible.
So there are a few ways that we can heal our toddler, yes
the most common one is by giving them their healing once asleep.
But it can be done with them awake. It just takes a bit of
sneaky ness to over come them sitting still. I will always
remember my own Reiki Master telling me that her grandson
would not let her put him to bed because he knew that as soon
as grandma put her hands on him he would be out like a light.
What is the one thing that all children love? Cuddles all
children love to get a cuddle, there is a Reiki healing there
just by wrapping your hands around a child for a few minutes
will give them a boost that they need. If you have a child
that will stay still for a while then use this as a good time
to give them some healing. Just by placing your hands on their
tummy well send healing through all of the body. So for a
quick fix then this is great but there may be more definite
problems that you want to help your child with.
Reiki
for Constipation [
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If
your child finds it hard to go to the toilet then there are
a few things you can do to help. Have your child lay on their
backs and place your hands on their base chakra when treating
them for constipation always imagine the colour orange, we
all know that orange is a simulating colour and the colour
for the base. Even have your child wear orange even if it
is only the underpants that are this colour. I myself have
proven that this works. My very own son had terrible trouble
from the age of 1-4 we used to have to give him medicine up
the back passage at least once a week to help him go. This
is where my own Reiki lessons helped me i started to Reiki
his tummy of a night when he was asleep and imagine the colour
orange, he also used to wear orange undies. Before this we
had him at a specialist that many times that is just wasn’t
helping. After about a month of this procedure one day out
of the blue he came to me and told me that he had gone to
the toilet all by him self. Yes with out the help of the dreaded
bottom medicine. He is now six and we have not had anymore
trouble with his bowls. With doing this exercise you too can
help any child with this very painful problem.
Reiki
for Asthma [
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This is a common problem in young children, more and more
children are being diagnosed with this condition you can help
this problem by using a few simple hand positions
If
your child will let you do these positions then give it your
all? But as we all know that if the intent is there with Reiki
then it will be received right, even if you can lay the child
down and place your hands on their chest area.
Reiki
for Ear Infections [
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All
children somewhere along the way will encounter an attack
of an ear infection, we all now how painful this can be for
small children. Reiki is an affective way of helping them
ease the discomfort of this painful childhood aliment.
Just
by placing your hands over their ears will help them recover
from a very painful infection. You can even do one ear at
a time which may be easier while the child is watching tv
with their head on the side just gently place your hand over
one ear.
Reiki
for Cuts and Scrapes [
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Reiki
is the best form of treatment for any sort of cuts and scrapes
your child might receive by placing your hand over the area
that is sore and hold for a while. Again i have proven this
works it seems my son is quiet the reiki guinea pig, he was
in the shower and i very carelessly left the razor out and
being a child wanted to take a closer look. He pulled apart
the razor and while doing this he cut his thumb. The skin
was very deeply cut and in any normal circumstance would have
needed a stitch. (i am not saying that reiki is all you need
of course there will be time that a hospital or doctor will
be needed) and in my sons case if reiki had not of worked
i would of indeed taken him to our GP. But i held his thumb
in my hands for about 15 minutes and after calming him down
i took a look and was amazed at what i saw. The blood had
dried into my hands and i couldn’t even tell where he
had cut himself. I myself was shocked to see just how well
the Reiki had mended the wound in just minutes.So
you can see just by a few examples that Toddlers and Reiki
can be a partner ship for life.
When
it comes to treating toddlers we all know how feisty they
can be so it does sometimes comes down to doing what you think
is best. We all have to remember that we are Reiki practitioners
and have all been taught in different ways. This is just a
guideline for some tips that may be useful at times.
I
always tell my students that sometimes Reiki is best used
in toddlers when they are asleep it is more affective and
easier on all parties. We all know there are many hand positions
so there will be a position for us to help our very special
little people.
There
are many aspects of child ailments that can be treated with
Reiki. But also remember that sometimes a medical opinion
should be considered. Like we should tell all of our clients
we are not doctors and should not self diagnose.Here
comes the part of healing children that i like the older children
from ages 4-12 they are more receptive to the Reiki you can
explain to them what your doing and they will understand.
There is a lot more healing that can be done with the older
children. What i like to focus on is the hyperactivity that
can come with some children. Giving a hyperactive child or
one with ADHD a reiki treatment can be most rewarding. This
is where meditation comes into play. There are lots of nice
meditation cds for children that can be played while doing
a treatment. You can start of first of all by trying just
the cd while going off to sleep. This will help to control
the brain and slow the child down. This will also help bring
there awareness to the difference of a quiet sleep or a disruptive
sleep. Let’s start with an easy one.
Reiki
for Not Going to Bed [
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There
are many children that fight to go to bed, there are often
many tantrums and fights before this period. You want to make
it as smooth and relaxing for the child otherwise they will
be all hyped up and that’s not a good nights rest. They
must know when their bed time is ½ hour before hand
make sure that they know that bed time is coming soon and
make it a quiet peaceful transition so they now that it is
fun to go to bed, make sure they know that they will get a
story and even some nice music playing while this is happening.
This is where the meditation cd comes into play. For a younger
child a plain soft music will be fine remember that if they
are too young then anything they have to visualise they won’t
be able to do. As they get older then a nice child meditation
cd can be brought in. Make a big deal of them having a special
stereo player in their room and then listen to the cd together.
Try and make this time as special and peaceful as you can.
If they know that they are getting something wonderful they
will be a lot calmer going to bed and have a much calmer nights
sleep. While this is happening hold your child and cuddle
them this is where you can send those sleepy vibes. Send that
life force energy into their little beings and tell them to
relax. You can either sit on the floor or rest your hands
on their tummy while listening to the music. This position
seems to send the children off to sleepy quickly. You can
also place one hand on their head too this is a nice tranquil
healing that gets them drifting off to the land of nod.
Reiki
for Nightmares [
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Again,
this is particularly hard on children having nightmares they
get frightened and its dark, if they have had a large fright
then the same position for shock applies. You can put one
hand on their tummy and the other either one the back of the
head or place the other hand on their back. Let the energy
flow and watch them calm in a matter of minutes. Once again
after they have settled they lay them back and keep your hands
on their tummies.
Reiki
for Bed Wetting [
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This
is a common case in a lot of children and they can be many
causes. In a lot of children one cause can be anxiety the
best position for this is the solar plexus and base concentrate
on the bladder when performing reiki. Also you can try to
teach then to stop and go method when urinating. This has
proven to work especially working on the bladder area.
Reiki
for Hyperactivity [
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This
is a very common problem some children just have an over active
imagination and just want to replay everything put in the
real world. Their brains think before doing anything, if you
teach them to slow down and think about it first before they
speak they might not be as bad. But for the children who are
generally hyperactive this is where a lot of treatment comes
in handy. There are many things that you can do with the child
it all depends on the severity of the problem. So we will
take it step by step to getting these misunderstood children
the help they deserve. If you are reading this and are not
a reiki practitioner then you need to find a Reiki practitioner
in your area. You will need to organise them to have a few
one on one lessons with your child. If you are a Reiki practitioner
then you need to have a few lessons may be once a week that
is put aside for that child. A bit like you would if you were
a tutor. What i would try is to spend some time with the child
and watch them take notes at their behaviour and watch if
they have learning difficulties or listening problems, take
particular notice at what you think is their problem and what
best reiki treatment will help.
Establishing
a Relationship [
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This
is very important if you don’t establish this relationship
at the very beginning the child will not learn to trust you.
All children have to trust their teachers or doctors or even
their Reiki practitioners. Spend time with them as a play
mate first, don’t go straight in to practitioner mode
just play with the child first talk with them find out what
bothers them find out if they get angry what makes them tick.
Then when you are confident with the child you then can start
establishing a lesson plan.
First
Session with Child [
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This
is where you bring in the meditation ask them to visualise
to use their imagination, get them to sit quietly and listen
to a story always start of with the relaxation music playing
in the background, make sure that they can always hear the
softness of your tone and the music. Try holding their hands
and send some energy through , make up a game that requires
holding their feet, grounding is the best form of relaxing
a child that has hyperactivity, while you are reading to them
or holding their hands or feet let them hold a grounding crystal.
Remember that they are children they won’t understand
so just let them think they are holding a magic rock... there
are many magical games that can be played with children of
all ages. Let them settle in their own way. Only start with
the first session for only around 15-20 minutes don’t
keep them still to long this is where boredom sets in. If
you bore them the first time round they won’t be so
cooperative the second time. Remember that first impressions
last. Try this couple of times until the child trusts you
and starts looking forward to their sessions. When they are
comfortable they will be more focused and tuned in to new
things. We as Reiki practitioners all have different ways
we do our healing remember that this is just a guideline for
people who do need some information or tips. Bring along some
educational toys work out their weakness if its maths then
bring in a fun way to learn maths that they will be excited
about. All this can be done in the forms of healing touch
and child meditation. If this can be done a hour before their
bedtime then they might be more relaxed and have a good nights
sleep. If the child won’t stay still and you have reiki
two them start with some symbols, draw them into their hands
and feet for grounding protect their bedroom draw symbols
on places that you might think will calm them down. We all
know the power of the symbols. Our children need the best
attention that they deserve even if they are monsters or angels.
If we keep telling the child that they are naughty all the
time they are going to grow up thinking that. They will think
what is the point in doing anything good because i am naughty.
We need to heal these children give them the power of universal
life force energy; give them something good that they can
hold onto. Praise the child take, them away in meditation
so they have a happy place to go. If they are older explain
to them that if they feel like they want to run and explode
them let them go to their magical place. Make a magical place
for each individual child explain to them how they can go
to their very own magical kingdom. Explain to them when they
think the energy is to much let them take themselves off to
this place. Fill it with healing energy fill it with love.
And remember that these children can be helped it might just
take a bit more healing that normal. Also remember the story
of Dr Usui he went out with his gift to the beggar’s
city he helped those who wanted to be helped. He looked at
all those beggars and knew that he could help them, he did
not look down on them because they were poor he knew the power
in the healing. It’s the same with children we shouldn’t
look down on them because they are naughty or that they cause
trouble, we should look them as human beings that are in need
of a little inner sanctuary and we as Reiki practitioners
should be able to provide that sanctuary.
So
take the time with these children lets try to give them a
life that they are going to be comfortable in lets try and
prove that medication is not always the way to go. I do realise
that some children will not be able to respond from healing
but we will never know what possibilities that child can show
if we just share the gift. They say that ADHD is to do with
the chemicals not working in the brain, well what is Reiki
it works by using both sides of the brain with this universal
life force energy, these children can be helped so lets try
and stop the suffering of children. So i hope that some of
this information can be of help. My life would not be the
same if Reiki wasn’t apart of it. I know that i have
helped my own children many time with reiki and it is the
first thing i think of when someone is ill. I am sure we all
the same if our children are sick we give them some Reiki
so why not give other peoples children the gift of healing
too. It’s there to be shared so share it and see the
magic that happens.
In
all my attunement classes i do, or in any speech i may give
i my self will always thank my Reiki Master it was for her
that i am where i am today, to give me this gift and to belive
in me when i was a practitioner and now a Master. Her confidence
in me makes me know i can do anything. That is how we should
make children feel also that they can concur anything. So
thank you Dawn for your special gift and wisdom. I hope that
this helps as many misunderstood and sick children and to
show them their potential.
All
my Blessings
Sharyn
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